If I may be so bold...

[nightrythm]

I'm a little nervous about doing this only because I'm unsure whether or not my ego can take it. But, I decided to respond to someone else. It seems only right that I should continue the trend. Honesty please.

Taken from ascius
So I want you to tell me what you percieve as being the worst thing about me is. And if you have the guts, go ahead and ask your friends to do the same

Comments

You

[willabark.livejournal.com]

Have a tendancy to be an intelectual elitist and to look down on people.

Re: You

[nightrythm]

Well, I refuse to stop being intellectual! Tried to give it up in high school and I just didn't like myself. *grin*

But you are right about my elitist attitudes. That is something I need to work on. Next time you catch me getting on my high horse. Poke me. Tell me "your middle class is showing". That'll be the 'safe-word' between us, so I don't get defensive and I actually listen. Okay?

I'll try to be better, but I'd like your help.

[deliriumx.livejournal.com]

You totally hog the patch! hehe.. mostly kidding (in that its true, but not a fault so much), I know how it goes in relationships and having 'those' days.

Hrrm.. well ya felt a bit on the cold side for a long time, of course I'm the same way that I don't usually warm up to people easily, so we coulda been bouncing that vibe back and forth.

[nightrythm]

*nods* Yeah, but we got over it! *grin*

[deliriumx.livejournal.com]

and I'm quite glad of it :)

[hobohemian.livejournal.com]

You're masochistic. :)

Why would you post this?! We're sensitive and insecure creatures as it is, we artistic-type humans, we don't need a hundred people telling us what they hate about us. It's one thing to ask a close friend to objectively tell you if there's something you need to work on in the context of that relationship, but I can't see the use of getting a ton of very general negative feedback all at once. It doesn't seem like it would be motivating - it seems like it would just break your heart.

Maybe that's just me...

[nightrythm]

Why would I post this? Umm... 'cause I like to poke at old wounds from time to time? *shrug* I don't know. It seemed the thing to do at the time. And also, I had the mental mindset of "I'm not going to like the answers, but I need to process them as constructive criticism." Besides, if someone is just being mean, I can always throw their ideas out and say that I don't care what they think. *grin*

I'm also one of those people who wants to know what's going on in other people's heads. I want to understand how others see me. It's the self-centered part of myself. I want to know about *me*.

[stacymckenna.livejournal.com]

You make me feel so goddamn short!

[nightrythm]

LOL! I love you. You are so wonderful.

[katylin.livejournal.com]

The worst thing is that I can not remember hugging you!

[nightrythm]

*thinks* I don't remember that either. Next time we'll fix that.

[nakeygirl.livejournal.com]

You don't kiss me nearly often enough. Or visit. So nyah!
P.s. on an unrelated note, I've been meaning to say, we need to hang out and speak Spanish more so my son can pick some up.

[nightrythm]

On kissing: You only need to mention it. Or, you can initiate it yourself! *grin*

On hanging out: Yes, we do! I'll have to remind my mom to include me when she takes my baby cousins out to Spanish Language activities. That way I can bring you guys.

[nakeygirl.livejournal.com]

sounds good!