2005-01-21 09:54![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
nightrythm
nightrythmA lot of things came up in conversation last night. What got stuck in my head were some questions that need asking in relationships.
The general question is: What you expect from our relationship? With some people you have to aske multiple questions to get an answer.
What do you gain from our relationship? Perhaps another way to ask - how do I make you feel? Yet another angle of qustioning - If I were gone, what would you miss about me?
Is there anything you would say is missing from our relationship. No really, what do you want from our relationship, that we don’t currently have? What do you want for our future? How do you want our relationship to progress? It is the nature of relationships to change and grow. How would you like to see our relationship grow positively?
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Now a question for you, dear readers. What did I miss? Is there another way to ask these things of people who have trouble opening up? Is there a better aproach?
The general question is: What you expect from our relationship? With some people you have to aske multiple questions to get an answer.
What do you gain from our relationship? Perhaps another way to ask - how do I make you feel? Yet another angle of qustioning - If I were gone, what would you miss about me?
Is there anything you would say is missing from our relationship. No really, what do you want from our relationship, that we don’t currently have? What do you want for our future? How do you want our relationship to progress? It is the nature of relationships to change and grow. How would you like to see our relationship grow positively?
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Now a question for you, dear readers. What did I miss? Is there another way to ask these things of people who have trouble opening up? Is there a better aproach?
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