Exes

[nightrythm]

I for one would love to still be in contact with my exes. They however, don't seem to be so inclined. What does that say about me? or them for that matter.

Comments

[mlerules.livejournal.com]

This implies to me that once you gain close contact/understanding w/somebody, your emotional closeness persists, even if hanging out and physically being close ain't on any longer. Wouldn't begin to guess what it says 'bout them, as there're so many options and it's not overly productive or helpful to think too hard 'bout or try to suss out another's motivations.

[red4269.livejournal.com]

I don't think it says much. I am in contact with a few of my exes and some don't want contact with me. Just kinda the nature of the beast :)

[argentla.livejournal.com]

Some people just can't do it. If there are unresolved issues or a lot of lingering chemistry, it can be really, really uncomfortable, and it's not necessarily anybody's fault. What really sucks is if you still really have the hots for somebody and they're now off-limits...you don't necessarily want to interact with them at all, because it burns.

[daeglan.livejournal.com]

I know I don't stay in contact with exes. I think once I psochhologically close the door on someone that is it it does not open again.

[fyrebringer.livejournal.com]

it could mean there are some unresolved issues there that you are not aware of. maybe unwittingly, you hurt them deeply and they would need to have that issue resolved before being comfortable around you in social or personal settings. it's not anything negative on you so much as just old baggage that probably needs to come out so it can go completely away on their part.

[evilgerbil.livejournal.com]

I know that with mine, we all just hurt each other so terribly it was not possible to get past it.