Update

Patch and I have discussed the parameters of our relationship, confirming boundaries etc. Also, Caddy helped me work through the jumble of fears caused by overthinking that often happen in my head. I feel much better now.

Plus, I went out with Vegas Crush Girl (VCG) on Friday night and had a good time. *grin* She works part time at a flower shop. I suspect, I'll be getting a lot of flowers. Egads, I *really* *really* like being courted.

Column!

This week's column is about the girls I went to high school with. I've been told it's one of my best. Please read. www.twoheadedcat.com.

Roomate benefits.

Someone asked me a question that I think is best answered in it's own entry.

Caddy is an excellent girlfriend. He and I talk in the kitchen (often late at night) over what is bugging us. We support each other emotionally and serve as sounding boards for ideas. He's not only a rational person, but an emotional person. He listens to how I feel. He asks me questions to help me delve into what is going on and presents logical points in response. I can then take or leave his advice. But what is truly beneficial is that he helps me unravel my emotions and get past the initial agitation to the heart of the matter.

And I probably don't say it often enough - Thank you Caddy - I love you.